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Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Hitting ON The Belt....

A fool is a fool is a fool is a fool....
For some reason that has been my mantra all this week...but hold on before you start wondering why. Lots of people can relate to the situation I was in.

I woke up one day and my mind just wondered into the area of relationships and all the mistakes (human ones) that I've made in all those years. I would have never admitted to having a "type" but reflecting back on it I realize that I do. The only difference is my "type" involves all the bad stuff, the no-nos that your mother warns you about.

The Do-it-yourself projects:
These were really a favorite of mine, they are like a puzzle waiting to be un-puzzled or have their potentials unleashed and this challenge was thoroughly enthralling for me. I would go at it with the zeal and zest of a teenager at their first mixer.
Problem: Once the puzzle unravels its back to boredom and I wonder what was so interesting in the first place.
In a nutshell; DIYs+Peachez=Unhappily ever after.

The Half-baked projects.
These are guys who are still a work in progress. In a nutshell some other female had already began the process of "re-adjusting" him and for some reason or other left the project in betwixt formation. These guys tend to be like a puppy caught in headlights, they don't know whether to move forward or back.
Problem: Once I take up a half-baked project, chances are I will not like what the previous "re-adjuster" did and since there is no erase-reboot button on him, i get frustrated faster than you can say.....yeah, that fast.

The Self-made guys
These are guys who come practically packed in a gift box with a pretty ribbon to match. They have it together and things are already going pretty well for them. A gal tends to be almost like the last piece to complete his picture perfect world. Sounds ideal right? Hah! Have you met me?
Problem: Boredom..........
Oh, you're still waiting to read more? This guy rarely poses a challenge. He is self-made and probably as stubborn to changes as an old rock. And trust me most females do want to change a guy even if its just a teensy bit.

In conclusion, I plead The Freedom of Expression (just in case anyone has been offended) hehehe they are just thoughts and subject to change....occasionally.

Love y'all
God bless.