LOVE DOES HURT...

We always seem to forget or overlook the fact that when you love someone you automatically give the person the power to hurt you. What is it about love that keeps people going for more and more of it even after they are hurt. Its kind of like a moth that is drawn to the light bulb over and over despite the fact that with every bang its burnt. And the worst thing is that the pain is like a stab in the stomach, it gnaws on you making you think of all that is not right in your life and it drudges up old hurts that you thought was water under the bridge. When you experience that kind of pain it feels like nothing can ever be right so whats the next step? If only there was a book you could refer to, a guru you can consult...but this life is only yours to make and there will be hard times ahead...so ask yourself if its worth it to embrace the love with all its hurts or has the time come to draw lines and find a different path? Both choices are equally hard but necessary at the right time... God bless